JUSTICE REPORTER
Parental alienation centres in the United States are using unproven “quackery” to deprogram children ordered into their care by well-meaning Canadian judges, a leading Ontario child psychologist has charged.
Peter Jaffe says the programs may even damage children by destroying overnight their primary support bulwark: the alienating parent whose care they have been under.
“It is not a good thing if a child has bonded to an alienating parent, but disrupting that child and pulling them away from whatever sense of security they have may end up being more harmful than good in the long run,” said Dr. Jaffe, a professor at the University of Western Ontario in London.
“When you’re going to provide a treatment, you have to know what the unattended consequences or side effects are,” he said. “You may be solving one problem but creating a whole host of new problems.”
The deprogramming issue erupted last week after a Toronto judge forcibly removed three girls from their mother and sent them for treatment to a U.S. centre in an undisclosed location. It was at least the third time that an Ontario judge has taken the extreme measure in the past year.
The parental alienation centres, which operate in relative secrecy, in part to avoid surprise visits by angry parents searching for children who have been seized, is to be debated at an Ontario Bar Association conference today.
Dr. Jaffe said the spate of judicial orders runs counter to a laudable trend of granting children more rights. “It really doesn’t matter whether you are sending them to a locked ward of a hospital somewhere in Pennsylvania or you are sending them to Disneyland, I think it’s a significant infringement on their rights to take a Canadian child and force them to enter a treatment program in the U.S.”
Sol Goldstein, a Toronto child psychiatrist familiar with the U.S. programs, said they typically devote four or five days to intensive discussion, visual presentations and “logic and kindness,” to prod alienated children into critical thinking. He said children also have opportunities to spend relaxed, recreational time with the parent from whom they are estranged.
“Nothing can change like that within a week,” Dr. Goldstein added. “It’s like doing major surgery. The follow-up is crucial.”
Donna Wowk, a Toronto family lawyer, agreed that while securing time away from the parent who caused the alienation “is critical” to successfully treating a child, relapses are a major risk. “You can have great counselling sessions, but as soon as they are back with the alienating parent, it’s all undone,” she said.
Toronto family lawyer Harold Niman, who represented a non-custodial parent whose children were recently sent to a U.S. parental alienation centre, conceded that much remains unknown about the treatment.
“There is no doubt this is uncharted territory,” he said. “To a certain extent, we don’t know where this is all going to lead, but I think it’s like chicken soup. It can’t hurt. It is something designed to be therapeutic for the children, and I can’t see how it could hurt.
“Part of what is going on is an effort to find a solution to a very difficult problem. We are talking about a very, very narrow group of parents and they are almost invariably dysfunctional. These are parents who are toxic people.”
Dr. Jaffe said that if the Ontario family court system were less dysfunctional, children at risk of being alienated from a parent would be identified and treated early.
“I’m not criticizing the judges,” he said. “I understand their degree of frustration. But these cases really are a monument to the failure of the system to intervene early.
“There are bits and pieces in place in Ontario, but nobody is really in charge of the system,” Dr. Jaffe said.
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In response to the comment in the article above by Howard Niman:
“It can’t hurt. It is something designed to be therapeutic for the children, and I can’t see how it could hurt.”
How can it hurt? FYI-There have been cases where the children try to commit suicide because of this unethical PAS BS. From the article on this blog about the PAS Racket, one the of the children in that case attempted suicide and had to be hospitalized – Dalia Saffa Biller, Martha Jacobson, and Jan Faust in collusion with GAL, Vicki Plant, were involved in that case. In a Pennsylvania case, a boy named Nathan Grieco committed suicide by hanging after being repeatedly forced to visit his father, and being subjected to the horrible overall treatment that children that unethical psychologists subject children to when they claim parental alienation – Richard Gardner was the psychologist in that case. There are numerous cases were the children resort to self harm or other destructive behavior. In a Texas case, a child shot and killed his father when being subjected to forced visitation and unethical treatment by PAS accusing psychologists – Reena Sommer was involved in that case. Of course, these UNETHICAL psychologists who claim to be able to determine with 100% accuracy that it is the MOM who causes the child to feel the way they do as if they have a crystal ball. The fathers are exalted and the entire rest of the family is accused of lying. Just who do these crackpots think they are, that they decide who is being truthful. Amazing how entire families are accused of lying, even after the children are over 18, like Jennifer Collins, who repeatedly denounces this PAS garbage after her family was given asylum in the Netherlands. Her dad beat her mom, her brother, and herself, and there are medical records to prove it. Yet, the unethical evaluator, Susan DeVries, the colluding GAL, Mary Laughead, and Judge Charles A. Porter all deny the reality of the abuse. There are many more examples of cases in other blogs listed in the blogroll, and at Stop Family Violence. Also, checkout the very specious evaluations of Dr. John Zervopoulos, who uses the same rhetoric in case after case to remove children from their mothers for profit with horrible results for the children.
Someone please help these girls, and all the other children who might fall pray to this scam! There was another recent decision in Canada that took a boy away from his father and sent him to a US “reprogramming” center. Despite the pro-mom slant of this blog, no child should be taken away from a parent they are happy living with. If the boy was happy with his dad, why couldn’t he live with him? Likely the forced evaluations, forced therapies, and constant pressure put on these children makes them resent and dislike the non-custodial parent even more than if they were left alone to sort out their own feelings. These PAS Purveyors just enjoy fabricating phony syndromes to profiteer off kidnapping children from custodial parents. There will certainly be nothing good to come from this.
To read more on this subject, check out the following posts:
Canadian Judge Recognizes PAS Treatment as Quackery
Ethical Scientific Experts Denounce “PAS” Reprogramming
Doctor Who Intentionally Severs Bonds With Mothers Is a Monster