More Canadian Children Taken Captive

Canada Infested With Parental Alienation Profiteers

Two cases are hitting the news involving Parental Alienation in Canada. One where a mother is being banned from seeing her teenage daughter for a year, and another case where a teenage boy is attempting to RESCUE his brothers from these unethical parental alienation doctors.

B.C. court bars mother from seeing daughter for more than a year

Teen enters brainwashing battle to seek brothers’ release from parents

Canada has a large number of Parental Alienation Professionals who for a price will go after the custodial parent in an effort to change custody, dragging the children thru hell. Many of these professionals are associated with the Canadian Symposium on Parental Alienation Syndrome (CSPAS), and/or the AFCC.

The British Columbia case inflicts severe Maternal Deprivation on a teenage girl. Anyone doing this IS emotionally abusive, and BMLCTA believes the mother when she is saying the father is emotionally abusive to the daughter. This ruling is PROOF that the father, who must be well-off financially, inflcted abuse using the legal system to repeatedly attack this mother and child, 17 times according to the story, and ultimately inflicted this DEATH BLOW. BMLCTA prays for this child and hopes that the mother reads this article and will appeal this horrible ruling. Justice Donna Martinson and attorney, Jessica Ko have been added to the Hall of Shame for this abuse inflicted on this teenager.

B.C. court bars mother from seeing daughter for more than a year

Published Monday March 9th, 2009

VANCOUVER, B.C. – In a case of extreme parental alienation, a mother has been banned by a B.C. Supreme Court judge from seeing her teenage daughter for more than a year.

Because of the urgency of the matter, Justice Donna Martinson issued the terse, two-page ruling outlining 15 conditions the parents must follow, including that the mother, known only as Ms. A, not see her daughter until at least March 31, 2010.

The decision came after the mother alleged extreme emotional abuse by the father, which she claimed was putting the teen’s safety at risk.

“I am satisfied that Ms. A’s allegations are unfounded,” Martinson wrote. “I am further satisfied that she has continued to undermine the relationship between M and her father and has acted in ways that are detrimental to M’s psychological healing.”

Names have been stripped from the court ruling to protect the girl’s identity.

The judge has ordered that both the mother and maternal grandmother have no contact with the girl, which would be enforced by police if necessary.

The court has also ordered the mother to pay $320 per month for the girl’s counselling, on top of the child support she is already paying.

Jessica Ko, the lawyer for the girl’s father, said it’s been a gruelling road for the dad who has been in court 17 different times to gain access to his daughter or defend himself against the mother’s allegations.

“It went to the point where our client was essentially bankrupt from defending himself and pursuing this legal matter,” said Ko.

She said the father is in a highly respected profession and should be able to recover financially.

Ko said the ruling banning the mother from any contact with the child was extremely unusual, because often the court attempts to find a balance in access between the parents.

“This is a case where there was found to be an extreme example of parental alienation by the mother towards the father.”

—end of article—

In the second case, a teenage boy is attempting to rescue his younger brothers from the horrific situation created by the Parental Alienation Profiteers. Please note that the Father has custody in this case, and it is the Mother who is claiming to be parentally alienated. BMLCTA does believe that Maternal Deprivation is harmful to children, but does not ever condone the tactics employed by these Parental Alienation Profiteers, whose true goal is to make as much money as possible on the case regardless of the harm they inflict on the children, and also BMLTCA does not believe in coercive therapies, or removing children from homes where they are happy regardless of whether the custodial parent is the Father or the Mother.

Hopefully this teenage boy will be successful in his rescue efforts for his younger brothers. This young man is a brave soul with a big heart, and he should be commended for his efforts. BMLCTA wholeheartedly supports Jeffery Wilson’s statement to file a lawsuit against the treatment center and hopes that he reads this post and checks out the Rachel Foundation Lawsuit against a similar PAS center. A immediate stop needs to put to the use of this Junk Science called Parental Alienation Syndrome.

Teen enters brainwashing battle to seek brothers’ release from parents

BRAMPTON, ONT. — JUSTICE REPORTER

An 18-year-old asked a court yesterday to let him rescue his brothers from the clutches of psychiatric deprogramming therapists and “incompetent” parents battling for control of their children.

The young man injected himself into the parental alienation case after his brothers – aged 12 and 14 – were bounced from a hospital psychiatric ward into a foster home in December because they refused to participate in a court-ordered therapy program.

The therapy, ordered in November by Ontario Superior Court Judge Francine Van Melle, was aimed at exorcising poisonous thoughts toward the mother that their controlling father had planted in the boys’ minds.

Judge Van Melle granted the mother sole custody and authorized her to force her sons into a deprogramming clinic.

The court heard yesterday that, after the boys refused to go along with the deprogrammers, the mother had them returned to Toronto and committed to a psychiatric ward at St. Joseph’s Health Centre.

A child psychiatrist at the hospital, Nagi Ghabbour, quickly became convinced that the prospect of forced therapy had turned the boys potentially suicidal. Dr. Ghabbour said in a letter that the boys felt “trapped in the legal system,” and were filled with a sense of helplessness.

Dr. Ghabbour urged an immediate end to any further psychiatric assessments or forced therapy, and called on the Catholic Children’s Aid Society to seize the children to forestall any further attempts by the mother to deprogram them.

Yesterday’s hearing was to decide whether the eldest brother can intervene in CCAS proceedings to place his brothers in long-term foster care.

“I am not enmeshed in this dispute,” the youth said in an affidavit. “Unfortunately, and tragically in a way, for my brothers and me, whatever I do is seen as a cancerous outgrowth of my dad, and so no progress can be made.”

The youth’s lawyer, Jeffery Wilson, said that a point has been reached where the well-being of all three children is threatened. He also told Ontario Court Judge Steven Clark that his client’s plan to raise his brothers on welfare – augmented by support payments from their parents – is feasible, “especially against the backdrop of two parents who have been largely incompetent in providing stability to the children.”

Mr. Wilson said that the youth views parental alienation deprogramming as “voodoo science,” and that he is prepared to launch a lawsuit to stop further treatment if necessary.

However, Marvin Kurz, a lawyer for the mother, maintained that the woman’s ex-husband is using her eldest son as a puppet in an attempt to get his two youngest sons back, or else, “put them in perpetual limbo.”

“What he has done is take up his father’s sword and shield to enter the battlefield on behalf of his brothers,” Mr. Kurz said. “If he is granted leave [to intervene], they will turn this case inside out.”

Mr. Kurz also denigrated any idea that the boys were mistreated at the deprogramming clinic. “They weren’t drugged,” he said. “They weren’t tied down. There is no point having them there, with their eyes closed and their fingers in their ears.”

The mother argued in an affidavit that if her eldest son is permitted legal standing in the case, “it will send a message to his brothers that they, too, can attempt to manipulate the court system to avoid orders such as that of Justice Van Melle.”

She said that her eldest son has been so brainwashed by her ex-husband that he refuses even to greet her when he sees her in court. “It is a great shame that my son, so intelligent and bright, is unable to live his life like a normal teenager,” she said. “He should not spend all of his energy fighting his father’s battles.”

In an interview, however, the 18-year-old blamed his mother for the relentless domestic tug-of-war.

“My brothers were taken forcefully and exposed to this [deprogramming] concept – which is a pretty strong method,” he said. “Most of the time, I have to convince myself that all of this is real. I think about it as being someone else’s life – because it doesn’t seem like it could be happening to me.”

The startling chain of events highlighted a growing controversy over parental alienation and the therapies used to reverse it. A handful of U.S. therapists have touted their deprogramming clinics in Canada, resulting in at least three judicial treatment orders.

The parents of the three boys, who were raised in Eastern Europe, split up nine years ago amid a flurry of accusations that each had abused the children.

Ruling against a motion to shut the courtroom to reporters yesterday, Judge Clark remarked that, “without wanting to be flippant, there is little further risk to the children.”

He reserved his ruling on the eldest son’s motion.

—end of article—

 

For more on the dangers of PAS treatment centers:

Ethical Scientific Experts Denounce “PAS” Reprogramming

LEAVE THE BOY ALONE, HE SAID HE DOESN’T BELIEVE IN “VOODOO SCIENCE”

Canadian Children Taken Captive in Parental Alienation Scam Case

Spin Doctor Joe Claims Kids Are Waiting To Be Rescued??? Needs Translation…

Canadian Judge Recognizes PAS Treatment as Quackery

Maternal Deprivation Research

There have been numerous studies regarding Maternal Deprivation, with a large source of information coming from Bowlby, based on Spitz and Goldfarb, and also from unethical animal experimentation. Overwhelmingly, research shows that severing this natural bond between a mother and child causes severe emotional and behavioral problems, such as depression and psychosis. The phrase maternal deprivation is the terminology used in the early work of psychiatrist and psychoanalyst, John Bowlby on the effects of separating infants and young children from their mother. Some of the research was previously used to discourage mothers from working or using childcare, but it seems important to revive these studies as children are being deprived of their mothers intentionally by abusive men who claim to be “parentally alienated” in an ongoing scandal that rivals that of the Catholic Priest sexual abuse cover up.  

Maternal Deprivation Abuse (MDA), has been identified as occurring with great frequency in legal proceedings, with specific unethical lawyers, psychologists, and judges perpetrating the the same scam on mother after mother with similar horrific results for the children. There has been death by suicide, suicide attempts, depression, academic distress, retaliation by a child against a PAS claiming father, and untold misery for the victimized children and mothers.

Based on Bolwby’s theories, Maternally Deprivation affects children as follows:

  • Complete or almost complete deprivation could “entirely cripple the capacity to make relationships.”
  • Partial deprivation could result in acute anxiety, depression, neediness and powerful emotions which the child could not regulate.
  • The end product of such psychic disturbance could be neurosis and instability of character.(Bowlby J. (1951) pps. 11–12)

 

“Mother love in infancy and childhood is as important for mental health as are vitamins and proteins for physical health.” (Bowlby, 1953.)  Child psychoanalyst John Bowlby (1907–1990). 

 

Maternal Deprivation Abuse

Maternal Deprivation, or Motherlessness, is occurring with alarming frequency due to the unethical treatment of women and children in family court. Maternal Deprivation is inflicting abuse by severing the mother-child bond. It is a form of abuse that men inflict on both the mother and children, especially men who claim they are “parentally alienated” from their children when there are complaints of abusive treatment by the father.

Maternal Deprivation occurs when men seek to keep their children from being raised by their mothers who are the children’s natural caretakers. Some men murder the mothers of their own children. Others seek to sever the maternal bonds by making false allegations of fictitious psychological syndromes in a deliberate effort to change custody and/or keep the child from having contact with their mother when there are legal proceedings. A twisted form of Maternal Deprivation is to kill the children, so that the mother will be left to suffer. Sometimes there are family annihilation murders where the father kills the children and himself (or dies by cop), but the mother is not killed because she has received protective orders and her children have not as in the case of Jessica Gonzales.  

In seeking to define this form of abuse certain common elements are found in the Maternal Deprivation scenario as follows:

  • History of domestic abuse that could be physical, psychological, sexual, and/or social abuse occurring on or off again, occasionally, or chronically which could be mild, moderate, or severe, including homicidal and/or suicidal threats. 
  • Legal proceedings relating to abuse
  • Hiring of “Fathers Rights” attorney
  • Use of “Hired Gun” mental health professionals to make accusations of psychological disorder against the mother and children in deliberate effort to excuse abuse and change custody or grant visitation that is contrary to safety concerns. Another name for these unethical professionals are “Whores of the Courts
  • Raising claims of “psychological disorders” against the mother such as “Parental Alienation Syndrome” (PAS), Munchausen by Proxy Syndrome, Malicious Mother Syndrome, Lying Litigant Syndrome, Hostile Aggressive Parenting or any other mother-blaming psychological disorder that can be used by the unethical professional to re-victimize the victims.
  • Infliction of “Legal Abuse” by continually and excessively filing motions so that the mother continually has to defend herself and her child(ren) causing financial and emotional devastation.
  • Can occur in response to child support legal proceedings as retaliation.

The intent of “Maternal Deprivation” is to punish the mother and the child for revealing the abuse and to falsely claim that they are not abusive. This very commonly occurs as there are more and more “abuse-excuse” parental alienation accusing professionals who use this scientifically invalid theory over and over to achieve specific goals of the person paying them. Maternal Deprivation can also occur in response to child support legal proceedings. When occurring in this manner, Maternal Deprivation is a response to the financial demands as retaliation. Suddenly the father who had little prior involvement wants to take the kids half the time to avoid child support obligations, etc. When the men are really abusive, they ask for sole custody and demand the mother of the child pay them.

Although some people call this “Maternal Alienation”, a distinction needs to be made as the pro-pedophilia “Parental Alienation Syndrome” and the use of the word “Alienation” are most often used AGAINST battered women and abused children. There needs to be a distinction between the phony psychological syndrome and the intentional infliction of abuse on a mother and child by intentionally severing their natural bond. This distinction can best be made by NOT using the label of “Alienation” which will always be associated with the pro-pedophilia monster Doctor Richard Gardner.

Some of the characteristics of the especially heinous abusers who inflict Maternal Deprivation include but are not limited to the following:

  • Angry
  • Abusive
  • Violent
  • Coercive
  • Controlling
  • Threatening
  • Intimidating
  • Demanding
  • Domineering
  • Harassing
  • Stalking
  • Tyrannical
  • Oppressive
  • Forceful
  • Manipulative
  • Deceptive
  • Unethical
  • Un-empathetic (Lacks Empathy)
  • Entitled
  • Immature
  • Self-centered
  • Neglectful
  • Guilt inducing
  • Pushy
  • Intentionally tries to humiliate mother and/or child
  • Harsh, rigid and punitive parenting style
  • Outrage at child’s challenge of authority
  • May use force to reassert parental position
  • Dismissive of child’s feelings and negative attitudes
  • Vents rage, blames mother for “brainwashing” child and takes no responsibility
  • Challenges child’s beliefs and/or attitudes and tries to convince them otherwise
  • Inept and unempathic pursuit of child, pushes calls and letters, unannounced or embarrassing visits 

There is a distinct overlap of the intimate terrorist type domestic violence abuser with the Maternal Deprivation abusers as follows:

 

  • Coercion and threats
  • Intimidation
  • Emotional abuse
  • Isolation
  • Minimizing, denying and blaming (Hallmarks of PAS)
  • Using children
  • Economic abuse
  • Male privilege

The people who most often engage in Maternal Deprivation Abuse are most often: 

  • Abusive men
  • Vindictive second wives who don’t want to deal with the real mother of the children
  • Paternal grandparents who raised dysfunctional children (abusers)

The effects of Maternal Deprivation often cause the children to become psychotic, depressed, and sometimes suicidal or to have suicidal ideations. Another terrible reaction is when the child retaliates against the parent who accuses Parental Alienation Syndrome as in a Texas case where the child killed his father. Other times when the Maternal Deprivation abuser completely takes over the will of the child by using brainwashing techniques similar to those used in prison camps where deprivation and isolation are used to force ideological changes in captives, these children often have a sort of trauma-bonding with the abuser and model their behavior. Sometimes these children will also abuse the mother in the same manner as the father. Another generation is created to carry on the abuse, and will likely do the same to their own spouse and children.

 

 

 

For more articles involving Maternal Deprivation:

Failure of Family Court System Leads To Death and Devastation

Doctor Who Intentionally Severs Bonds With Mothers Is a Monster

Child in imminent fear shoots father – vindicated in appeal – PAS fraud nightmare

Cincinatti PAS

VAWnet Joan Meier on PAS-Parental Alienation Syndrome & Parental Alienation: Research Reviews

And many more articles throughout Battered Mothers Lose Children to Abusers and all the links on the sidebar.

Maternal Deprivation Abuse will be featured on BMLCTA Blog in an effort to wipe out this heinous crime against mothers and children.

 

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