Maternal Deprivation Research

There have been numerous studies regarding Maternal Deprivation, with a large source of information coming from Bowlby, based on Spitz and Goldfarb, and also from unethical animal experimentation. Overwhelmingly, research shows that severing this natural bond between a mother and child causes severe emotional and behavioral problems, such as depression and psychosis. The phrase maternal deprivation is the terminology used in the early work of psychiatrist and psychoanalyst, John Bowlby on the effects of separating infants and young children from their mother. Some of the research was previously used to discourage mothers from working or using childcare, but it seems important to revive these studies as children are being deprived of their mothers intentionally by abusive men who claim to be “parentally alienated” in an ongoing scandal that rivals that of the Catholic Priest sexual abuse cover up.  

Maternal Deprivation Abuse (MDA), has been identified as occurring with great frequency in legal proceedings, with specific unethical lawyers, psychologists, and judges perpetrating the the same scam on mother after mother with similar horrific results for the children. There has been death by suicide, suicide attempts, depression, academic distress, retaliation by a child against a PAS claiming father, and untold misery for the victimized children and mothers.

Based on Bolwby’s theories, Maternally Deprivation affects children as follows:

  • Complete or almost complete deprivation could “entirely cripple the capacity to make relationships.”
  • Partial deprivation could result in acute anxiety, depression, neediness and powerful emotions which the child could not regulate.
  • The end product of such psychic disturbance could be neurosis and instability of character.(Bowlby J. (1951) pps. 11–12)

 

“Mother love in infancy and childhood is as important for mental health as are vitamins and proteins for physical health.” (Bowlby, 1953.)  Child psychoanalyst John Bowlby (1907–1990). 

 

Maternal Deprivation Abuse

Maternal Deprivation, or Motherlessness, is occurring with alarming frequency due to the unethical treatment of women and children in family court. Maternal Deprivation is inflicting abuse by severing the mother-child bond. It is a form of abuse that men inflict on both the mother and children, especially men who claim they are “parentally alienated” from their children when there are complaints of abusive treatment by the father.

Maternal Deprivation occurs when men seek to keep their children from being raised by their mothers who are the children’s natural caretakers. Some men murder the mothers of their own children. Others seek to sever the maternal bonds by making false allegations of fictitious psychological syndromes in a deliberate effort to change custody and/or keep the child from having contact with their mother when there are legal proceedings. A twisted form of Maternal Deprivation is to kill the children, so that the mother will be left to suffer. Sometimes there are family annihilation murders where the father kills the children and himself (or dies by cop), but the mother is not killed because she has received protective orders and her children have not as in the case of Jessica Gonzales.  

In seeking to define this form of abuse certain common elements are found in the Maternal Deprivation scenario as follows:

  • History of domestic abuse that could be physical, psychological, sexual, and/or social abuse occurring on or off again, occasionally, or chronically which could be mild, moderate, or severe, including homicidal and/or suicidal threats. 
  • Legal proceedings relating to abuse
  • Hiring of “Fathers Rights” attorney
  • Use of “Hired Gun” mental health professionals to make accusations of psychological disorder against the mother and children in deliberate effort to excuse abuse and change custody or grant visitation that is contrary to safety concerns. Another name for these unethical professionals are “Whores of the Courts
  • Raising claims of “psychological disorders” against the mother such as “Parental Alienation Syndrome” (PAS), Munchausen by Proxy Syndrome, Malicious Mother Syndrome, Lying Litigant Syndrome, Hostile Aggressive Parenting or any other mother-blaming psychological disorder that can be used by the unethical professional to re-victimize the victims.
  • Infliction of “Legal Abuse” by continually and excessively filing motions so that the mother continually has to defend herself and her child(ren) causing financial and emotional devastation.
  • Can occur in response to child support legal proceedings as retaliation.

The intent of “Maternal Deprivation” is to punish the mother and the child for revealing the abuse and to falsely claim that they are not abusive. This very commonly occurs as there are more and more “abuse-excuse” parental alienation accusing professionals who use this scientifically invalid theory over and over to achieve specific goals of the person paying them. Maternal Deprivation can also occur in response to child support legal proceedings. When occurring in this manner, Maternal Deprivation is a response to the financial demands as retaliation. Suddenly the father who had little prior involvement wants to take the kids half the time to avoid child support obligations, etc. When the men are really abusive, they ask for sole custody and demand the mother of the child pay them.

Although some people call this “Maternal Alienation”, a distinction needs to be made as the pro-pedophilia “Parental Alienation Syndrome” and the use of the word “Alienation” are most often used AGAINST battered women and abused children. There needs to be a distinction between the phony psychological syndrome and the intentional infliction of abuse on a mother and child by intentionally severing their natural bond. This distinction can best be made by NOT using the label of “Alienation” which will always be associated with the pro-pedophilia monster Doctor Richard Gardner.

Some of the characteristics of the especially heinous abusers who inflict Maternal Deprivation include but are not limited to the following:

  • Angry
  • Abusive
  • Violent
  • Coercive
  • Controlling
  • Threatening
  • Intimidating
  • Demanding
  • Domineering
  • Harassing
  • Stalking
  • Tyrannical
  • Oppressive
  • Forceful
  • Manipulative
  • Deceptive
  • Unethical
  • Un-empathetic (Lacks Empathy)
  • Entitled
  • Immature
  • Self-centered
  • Neglectful
  • Guilt inducing
  • Pushy
  • Intentionally tries to humiliate mother and/or child
  • Harsh, rigid and punitive parenting style
  • Outrage at child’s challenge of authority
  • May use force to reassert parental position
  • Dismissive of child’s feelings and negative attitudes
  • Vents rage, blames mother for “brainwashing” child and takes no responsibility
  • Challenges child’s beliefs and/or attitudes and tries to convince them otherwise
  • Inept and unempathic pursuit of child, pushes calls and letters, unannounced or embarrassing visits 

There is a distinct overlap of the intimate terrorist type domestic violence abuser with the Maternal Deprivation abusers as follows:

 

  • Coercion and threats
  • Intimidation
  • Emotional abuse
  • Isolation
  • Minimizing, denying and blaming (Hallmarks of PAS)
  • Using children
  • Economic abuse
  • Male privilege

The people who most often engage in Maternal Deprivation Abuse are most often: 

  • Abusive men
  • Vindictive second wives who don’t want to deal with the real mother of the children
  • Paternal grandparents who raised dysfunctional children (abusers)

The effects of Maternal Deprivation often cause the children to become psychotic, depressed, and sometimes suicidal or to have suicidal ideations. Another terrible reaction is when the child retaliates against the parent who accuses Parental Alienation Syndrome as in a Texas case where the child killed his father. Other times when the Maternal Deprivation abuser completely takes over the will of the child by using brainwashing techniques similar to those used in prison camps where deprivation and isolation are used to force ideological changes in captives, these children often have a sort of trauma-bonding with the abuser and model their behavior. Sometimes these children will also abuse the mother in the same manner as the father. Another generation is created to carry on the abuse, and will likely do the same to their own spouse and children.

 

 

 

For more articles involving Maternal Deprivation:

Failure of Family Court System Leads To Death and Devastation

Doctor Who Intentionally Severs Bonds With Mothers Is a Monster

Child in imminent fear shoots father – vindicated in appeal – PAS fraud nightmare

Cincinatti PAS

VAWnet Joan Meier on PAS-Parental Alienation Syndrome & Parental Alienation: Research Reviews

And many more articles throughout Battered Mothers Lose Children to Abusers and all the links on the sidebar.

Maternal Deprivation Abuse will be featured on BMLCTA Blog in an effort to wipe out this heinous crime against mothers and children.

 

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Doctor Who Intentionally Severs Bonds With Mothers Is a Monster

This Dr. Harry Harlow was not just unsympathetic, but a monster just like the unethical doctors who forcefully remove children from loving mothers by claiming parental alienation to give them to their abusers. Why do they do this? Because they get paid by the abuser to do this! It’s a fraud on the courts that needs to end!

From the Top Ten Unethical Psychological Experiments
The Well of Despair 1960

     Dr. Harry Harlow was an unsympathetic person, using terms like the rape rack and iron maiden in his experiments. He is most well-known for the experiments he conducted on rhesus monkeys concerning social isolation. Dr. Harlow took infant rhesus monkeys who had already bonded with their mothers and placed them in a stainless steel vertical chamber device alone with no contact in order to sever those bonds. They were kept in the chambers for up to one year. Many of these monkeys came out of the chamber psychotic, and many did not recover. Dr. Harlow concluded that even a happy, normal childhood was no defense against depression, while science writer Deborah Blum called these, common sense results.
     Gene Sackett of the University of Washington in Seattle, one of Harlows doctoral students, stated he believes the animal liberation movement in the U.S. was born as a result of Harlows experiments. William Mason, one of Harlows students, said that Harlow kept this going to the point where it was clear to many people that the work was really violating ordinary sensibilities, that anybody with respect for life or people would find this offensive. Its as if he sat down and said, Im only going to be around another ten years. What Id like to do, then, is leave a great big mess behind. If that was his aim, he did a perfect job.

Any doctor removing a child from their mother using the fraudulent theory of parental alienation or other phony psychobabble BS needs to be exposed for the monsters they are. They come up with phony rhetoric and say it in a convincing manner, much like they did back in Salem when they accused women of witchcraft.  

This Parental Alienation Custody Change Fraud is going to go down in history as one of the most unethical psychological social engineering experiments of all time. The scandal is on the same level as the cover up of sexual abuse by the Catholic Church. It’s time people start to wake up and recognize that these doctors are covering up for all types of domestic abuse against women and children for PROFIT.

If you click on the links regarding Dr. Harry Harlow, you will find out that he received awards from psychological associations. Maybe this will start to get people thinking that there are groups of people doing unethical experiments and they do support each other on their theories and cover up for each other. The APA also published the Rind Study which tried to justify child sexual abuse as being acceptable and not that harmful to children. There is a common thread between all of these sick studies that push quack theories to justify unacceptable behavior. Only with Parental Alienation Theory, the whole idea is to call the victims liars which re-victimizes them. All that is needed to do this is to pay an unethical doctor to testify who will ignore real evidence and substitute in their fraudulent rhetoric.

When people realized the horrible treatment of animals that Harlow inflicted, the result was an animal liberation movement. What needs to happen as a result of these unethical parental alienation scams is for children to have a liberation movement and demand to have rights to be heard and to make their own decisions.

And Intentionally Scaring Monkeys

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California Family Court Fraud

From Women’s Legal Resource

Ventura County Superior Court

During my dissolution case, my ex-husband motioned the court to have a Psychological Evaluation performed under Evidence Code 730 citing I was an unfit mother. Prior to that motion being filed with the court, my ex-husband spent twenty days in jail for Domestic Violence and was placed on three years probation. Prior to that, my-ex-husband was arrested for suspicion of Murdering a drug dealer.

The Psychological Evaluation performed was absolutely a waste of my time, my money and proved to be a sham. My ex-husband had a women pose as a therapist, stating to the evaluator, I had been under her care and that I was a drug addicted person who should not be a parent. When I confronted the Psychological Evaluator, Dr. Fred Norris in Thousand Oaks, CA that I was not under this woman’s care, and that she was not licensed to practice psychology, he said, “It doesn’t matter.” I presented Dr. Fred Norris 137 pages of evidence to support that my ex-husband was violent, abusive, and to say the least not educated enough to be a nurturing parent. Dr. Norris undermined the documents and called himself a person certified with Domestic Violence. Dr. Norris undermined and discounted my ex-husbands conviction for Domestic Violence and his arrest record all together, he has a rap sheet. The Ventura County Superior Court’s Family Law division is nothing more than a court to hear traffic tickets.

I provided Judge Henry Walsh a motion to strike the Psychological Evaluation based on fraud and deceit. With that motion, attached as exhibits (evidence) to support the fraud were letters from The California Board of Psychology and Behavioral Medicine showing that the woman claiming I was under her care was not licensed to even practice Psychology. Judge Henry Walsh stated and I quote, “I don’t take this lightly” but he did nothing about it. My motion to strike the evaluation was denied.

While conducting research I found this article written by Claudia Rowe of the Seattle PI and I feel all women who are currently going through a Psychological Evaluation as part of a custody battle in court, need to read this.

Families’ futures decided with little oversight
Parent evaluators set own fees while wielding enormous power
By CLAUDIA ROWE
P-I REPORTER- Seattle PI

So-called parent evaluators need no particular credentials or training. They may use any method they wish, charge what they please and remain virtually free of oversight. Yet their word can upend families in a single stroke.

  

Kim McLauglin was one of a number of divorcing parents who hired psychologist Stuart Greenberg to be her court-appointed evaluator in a child custody dispute with her ex-husband.
In recent decades, as dockets have become clogged with warring parents battling for custody of their children, overwhelmed judges have turned increasingly toward this cluster of psychologists and social workers for guidance. But as there is almost no check on their influence, any human foible might result in a faulty or unfair report — with enormous implications for those families under the microscope.

This fact was thrown into sharp relief last month when Stuart Greenberg, a forensic psychologist with a thriving parent-evaluation practice, committed suicide while being investigated for surreptitiously filming women using the bathroom in his Montlake office and masturbating to the tapes.

For more than two decades, Greenberg had worked as a court-appointed evaluator, administering personality tests and voluminous questionnaires to the parents sitting in his office. The examinations often delved into minute detail: Did the father have a family history of arthritis? What about the mother’s childhood relationship to her pets — was it above average?

At the end of the process, which could stretch on for months, sometimes years, Greenberg issued his decision and a bill. Typically, the fee was triple that of other evaluators — one totaled more than $63,000 — but almost no one questioned him, at least not publicly.

Such is the case with the field in general. There is no central repository for complaints, nor any official registry of qualified practitioners.

“The truth is, you could be a psychologist or a social worker — or you could be nothing,” said Jorene Moore, director of Family Court Programs for King County Superior Court. “You could just hang your shingle and say, ‘I’m an evaluator.’ ”

At their best, evaluations can be a helpful tool for judges untrained to riffle through piles of psychological evidence.

But Elizabeth Robinson, a psychologist who recently left her position as a regulator with the state Board of Psychology, said she had seen enough complaints about evaluators’ ethics to warrant a serious concern.

Some had had improper relationships with one parent or another while purporting to conduct objective evaluations; others interviewed only one side in the dispute. Robinson saw children returned to abusive parents and others prevented from living with loving caretakers — all on the strength of a therapist’s report, against which there was virtually no recourse.

“It is an enormous amount of power, and I saw some evaluations that, frankly, I thought were terrible and were harmful to people,” she said. “Guidelines were needed.”

In June, after a decade of discussion, the board adopted newly binding regulations for psychologists working as parent evaluators. They must now document the reasons behind each recommendation, provide a written breakdown of fees and be free of previous relationships with either parent. Violating any of these conditions could be grounds for license suspension.

“I think that will be useful,” said Michael Trickey, presiding judge at King County Superior Court. “And hopefully, it will help reduce the cost of the evaluations, which always bothered me. Every evaluator sort of approaches things a little differently so it would be good to have some baseline standards.”

But the new measures apply only to psychologists. They have no authority over social workers or anyone else acting as a parent evaluator and for many, the rules come too late.

Kim McLaughlin, a real estate agent and mother of three, spent hours in Greenberg’s office, despite her increasing discomfort with his methods. She recalled taking a $1,500 personality test in a room crammed with other clients’ confidential files — everything unlocked and visible to anyone who might decide to peek.

During interviews, McLaughlin said, the psychologist sometimes had graduate students sitting in, listening to private information that she might not feel comfortable sharing with even her closest friends.

But the middle-aged woman could hardly object. A judge, after all, had appointed Greenberg to her case and as he would be recommending who should get custody of her children, she was loath to do anything that might alienate him.

“It was hell,” McLaughlin said. “He had you over a barrel — with your children’s future in the palm of his hand — and he knew it. But you didn’t dare say you minded because you’re in an evaluation with someone who’s going to say whether you get to see your kids.”

Over 2 1/2 years, McLaughlin said, she racked up bills over $63,000 — about twice what an expert witness charges for analysis and testimony in a murder case. But in the end Greenberg ruled against her, opining that the conflict between McLaughlin and her ex-husband had grown so bitter that it was harming their children.

The three, who were then living with their father, should have “no contact of any kind” with their mother, he wrote. “Including no e-mail, telephone calls letters, gifts, etc.”

On the strength of that recommendation, McLaughlin has been prevented from seeing her daughter for more than a year. “The fees were so astronomical,” she said recently. “But you were stuck with him.”

This scenario — desperate parents dutifully submitting to hours of pricey consultation in the hope of gaining a favorable ruling — was so troubling to William Proctor that he quit the business.

“It’s awful,” said the forensic psychologist, now a director of staff development at Western State Hospital. “This is not a win-win situation, or even a win-lose situation. Everybody is losing — except that everybody surrounding the drama is getting paid.”

Proctor said he typically charged about $2,000 per report — $3,500 was the absolute high end. At word of Greenberg’s fees, he gasped.

There is no official list of court-approved evaluators in King County, just a small pool of names that surface again and again. Typically, a judge will ask disputing parents to offer three mutually agreeable choices and appoint someone from that list. But just as customers have favorite mechanics or hairdressers, Family Court judges and commissioners have their preferred professionals. Greenberg, with his national reputation and 15-page résumé, was among the most popular.

“There’s a lot of people that make a lot of money off of divorces,” said Lawrence Hutt, a paralegal who was evaluated when his own marriage split up in the early 1990s and wondered how someone who barely knew him could make such a momentous decision. “I mean this is an industry, let’s face it.”

King County Superior Court is unique in Washington for employing 10 staffers to act as evaluators when a mother and father cannot amicably come to agreement about the best placement for their children. These social workers attend specific training and their fees are capped at $2,000 per couple. But of the 2,653 divorces involving children that were filed here last year, only 373 couples used this service, and most were lower-income parents with substance abuse, domestic violence or mental health issues.

Those who could pay more typically did.

“The people who have money don’t operate in our world,” said Moore, the Family Court administrator. “But if you’re on the edge, making $50,000 to $60,000 a year and you hire a private evaluator, you’re going to end your divorce poor.”

Andrew Benjamin, a psychologist and faculty member at the University of Washington, estimates that his Parent Evaluator Training Program has taught about 150 professionals how to handle high-conflict split-ups and completed about 800 evaluations. Greenberg often acted as an adviser to the group.

“There are legitimate concerns about how evaluations are conducted and those concerns are being addressed,” Benjamin acknowledged. Cost, he added, is a frequent complaint and at his program fees are determined on a sliding scale, up to a high of about $3,500.

“But to be blunt about it, this is the United States,” Benjamin said. “There is a market for this work, and that market dictates these rates. Evaluators are charging as much as $25,000, and I’m comfortable with them charging what they think they’re worth.”

 

 

In the field of family law, a little-examined group of professionals has enough influence to separate fathers from children and relegate mothers to weekends-only status, based on little more than an opinion.